MY HUSBAND’S DEATH WAS MY GREATEST SETBACK...Stella

FEB 14. 2008


Stella Damasus
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How will you classify your music?
I play all genres of music as a singer. I don’t think there is any music I cannot sing. Apart from my own songs, most of the songs we render at events are copyright songs. We play all kinds of songs – from highlife to reggae; raga to juju; hip hop to oldies, jazz and stuff like that.

What is your beauty regimen like?
I don’t have any special routine. I don’t even know the names of these facial or body stuff. I am just myself because I know I have a good skin.

If there is a change of fortunes today, how do you start again?
The greatest setback I ever had in my life was the death of my husband. I doubt if there would be anything else that would ever derail me. The reason is that Jaiye’s untimely death is still a shock to me.

As you can see, I am just starting from where I stopped. My acting career initially was something I never wanted anything to happen to, because I wanted to be part of it like my mentors; but when the ban of a thing came up, I moved on, and I am still moving on. A man may die. Nations may rise and fall, but an idea lives on.

What then are you struggling with at the moment?
Before Jaiye died, I used to travel to these African countries like Ghana, Togo, Republic of Benin, to buy things like fabrics, beads, bags etc. I would come back home and design and redesign them. I am trying to put the shop in good shape due to customers’ yearnings. I do a lot of things for a lot of people. Those, and not forgetting my renamed band, G-Factor, are what I’m struggling with at the moment.

What propelled you into fashion business?
Really, when I wore those things, I discovered that a lot of people would just ask me how and where I got them. When I told them how I got it, they would say, ‘Ah! Can you get something similar for me when next you go?’ This I can say motivated me into the terrain. Thereafter, I opened Mon Afrique, an African shop, where all sorts of African items are procured.
How have you been surviving?
God never forsakes His people. I’m managing.

Any man on your mind?
None
Stella Damasus Aboderin is an epitome of beauty. Though married, she is still one of the most ‘toasted’ Nollywood gals. She was recently cornered by Tope Olukole at a function in Lagos. Excerpts:

Can you tell us how you came into acting?
When we were growing up, I used to sing with the junior choir in church and whenever they wanted to do anything artistic in my school – drama, singing, drawing – there was this friend of mine that would tell me to go for it and I followed her instructions obediently. She used to be an opera singer and also a stage actress then.

So, when I was growing up, she made me sing along songs by Bonny M, Abba etc whenever their tapes were played. I would hold an electric kettle cord as my microphone displaying in front of a mirror. Today, the rest is history.

You must be exceptionally talented to have been able to combine singing, dancing and acting.
I think it’s because I have been doing it right from my childhood. It’s like it has become a part of me and I hardly find it difficult doing it. My education too really helped me. And, of course, Jaiye and God are just the brain behind it all.

Whom would you refer to as your mentor?
Jack Nicholson and Cicely Tyson. They are fantastic people and I learn a lot from them.

Would you encourage your children to go into entertainment?
Isabel, my second daughter, seems to be walking towards that path; unlike her sister, Angelica, who rather likes things technical – like the computer, cables, phones etc.
 


 

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Primrose Onalenna Bonzo [01-07-2008 15:58]  
cmon..did i hear ryt..did u jus say your hubby died..? oh my dear im so sorry...very sorry..i jus left a comment on another story bout yr life..guess it was an old story and u were talking bout your hubby..IM TOTALLY SORRY MY DEAR AND GOD WILL BLESS U..love u lots
millicent [19-06-2008 03:33] 
God gives srenght to the weak ,so He will give u srength to carry on just keep doing yur best.I am a great fan of urs
remain blessed
elizabeth [13-06-2008 16:36]  
greetings
mercy huisken [14-05-2008 20:52]  
Hi Stella,
i love your work and i want you to know God is on your side.
love,
mercy.
Anita Alfred from Tanzania (East Africa) [16-04-2008 05:23] 
Stella. remember you are now a wife of God. Don't ever depend on your own understanding, but call upon the name of the Lord, He will surely come, ready to help you. Because He lives, you can face your tomorrow. Keep the young ones in the way of the Lord. Stay blessed always. I love you.
Jany [10-04-2008 16:07]  
My Dear, I pray that God will give u d straingt to take care of your family
queen [03-04-2008 14:12]  
hi lady, sorry abt what happen, it better to 4get than to remember and be sad, God will make another way 4 u.
Veronique [26-03-2008 23:42]  
Hello Stella. Sorry to hear about your husband's death but all i have to ask you is to stay atrong for the treasure he left you with( two girls). I also lost my husband tragically in October 2006. I am in my late twenties and have two little girls as well. I live in London; you never get over something like this. The precious thing i could remember my husband by is through the little Angels he had left me with. I have to be there for them. Write to me if you want.
My the Lord bless you
Stella o. Afolabi [09-03-2008 16:26]  
i am so sorry about your husband's death i pray that GOD will stay with you, provide for you and also protect you and your children( Amen).
chitalu [04-03-2008 13:07] 
You rock girl, keep doing what you do best. You are indeed a force to reckon with, love your movies and sense of style. smiles from zambia
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